Having found himself in dire need, the prodigal son returns to his father. He plans what he will say to ask his father’s forgiveness and what he is asking for - a job and a place to stay.
So often, we assume God knows what we want. We presume those closest to us will know what we need without us having to ask for it, and then we are
disappointed when they do not deliver. Through a long and painful process, I have come to understand the importance of telling those around me what I would like or need so that the expectations are clear for me and those I come into contact with each day.
So, too, it is with our relationship with God. Jesus tells us, “Ask, and it will be given you” (Matthew 7:7). St Ignatius of Loyola teaches us to begin our
times of prayer by asking for the grace we wish to receive in this encounter with God. In other words, we are invited to articulate to God and ourselves what we desire now.
This is not a foreign concept in our lives. We meet with friends for a cup of coffee or a meal. We meet with people to discuss a specific issue or ask for advice. We get together just to have fun. Usually, when we set up a meeting, we state our
intention. Why not do the same when we meet with God?
The added benefit of putting our desires into words is that we begin to see clearly where God is calling us.
As you start your prayer, take a moment to be specific about your intention for the time you spend with God.
What am I specifically asking for in this time of Lent?
What is God asking of me?
Reflections by Ursula van Nierop
