Why do we give, or invite, or do something for someone? Is it out of duty? Do we hope to get something in return? Do we want to be seen as generous or viewed as kind? Are we doing it to find favour with God? There are times we have no idea why we do something; we just do it without thinking at all.
I know someone who just can't help
herself. If she sees someone in need – a poor or lonely person, a hungry child, or an ailing old person – she responds in an instant. She gives of her finances, food, toiletries, time and talents in response. It is as if she has so much love welled up inside of her that it just bursts out.
Sadly, in a world where we seem to be becoming increasingly insulated in our responses, people like my friend are in the minority. However,
when I read this passage of scripture, the attitude of my friend comes to mind.
Jesus had been encouraging the people at a dinner party to recognise that being hospitable and generous is not a reciprocal act. We do not behave in this way because we hope we will benefit. In fact, Jesus encourages us to be hospitable and generous, particularly to those who will probably never be able to reciprocate. When we live and interact in that way,
God notices and is very pleased.
Notice, without judgment, for yourself today:
Who are you drawn to share your possessions, time and talents with?
With whom are you comfortable sharing your space?
Who are you wary of sharing with, perhaps even repulsed by?
What leads you to make those
choices?
Then have a conversation with Jesus about your noticing and let Jesus encourage, heal or enable you to live as a disciple in your community.
Reflections by Cherie-Lynn van der Merwe
