When we read this verse, what often strikes us is the image of Jesus carrying the cross. That scene—Jesus bearing the heavy wood towards Calvary—has become iconic. It symbolises his suffering and sacrifice, and it naturally captures our attention. Yet if we stop there, we might think the Gospel’s message is simply this: unless you suffer, carry burdens, or make great sacrifices, you cannot be a
disciple. Would that mean we must go in search of new hardships to prove our faith?
Thankfully, the verse adds an essential phrase: “and follow me.” Christianity does not glorify suffering for its own sake. We are first disciples, called to follow Christ, and our actions matter when they reflect his life.
Christ rejoiced at Cana; we, too, should rejoice. He wept at
Lazarus’ tomb; we should not be ashamed to cry. He bore his cross; we, too, may struggle. But it will be as his disciples that we carry this cross.
What aspect of Christ’s life am I being called to imitate this week?
Reflections by Grant Tungay SJ
