Lazarus was well known not only in Bethany but also in nearby Jerusalem. It made it easy for people to come to the comfort and sympathy of Mary and Martha. Life was not easy for women without a man in the family in those days. Women could even have been left destitute after the death of the man of the home.
Judging from the
costly perfumed oil that Mary had access to, the family was obviously well-off. Mary and Martha would be well cared for after Lazarus’ death. But no amount of money makes up for the death of a loved one. And so, Martha voices her disappointment to Jesus: if Jesus had been there, Lazarus would not have died.
Jesus tests Martha’s faith – whether she believes that He is the resurrection and the life, and that those who believe will
never die. Even in her grief, Martha could make her statement of faith, that she believes that Jesus is the Messiah, the Son of God who came into the world.
In our grief, do we see Jesus in the people who come to comfort us? In the midst of our grief, are we able to make our faith in Jesus known – that we who believe will never die?